body image for moms for teachers May 16, 2019
Hello Beautiful Pilates Teacher!
This is part 1 of 2 of The Beauty of Weight-Gain - a post I wrote in 2015 during my pregnancy, on how we can help our clients better embrace the fact that their bodies WILL change during and after pregnancy.
You'll read, from my perspective as a skinny girl, that I always had the opposite insecurity than most women in that I always WANTED to have more weight on me.
My hope is that it helps you to better understand the pregnant body from the perspective of someone who is active and healthy, and to empathize with women who may not be as active, and the toll it takes on the body, in general.
And in part 2, I will talk about the psychological perspective on weight-gain.
What you'll find in this post:
Here we go!
(Me 1 week before giving birth in the Summer of 2015)
(Originally written in 2015)
I have always been a skinny girl.
The kind of skinny girl who people walk up to and say "you are sooooo skinny!"
And then look me straight in the face and say "I hate you,"
most likely implying they hate that I don't gain weight and that they do.
I've also heard more than once, "You need to eat a sandwich."
Me (Alison Marsh) Kauai, Hawaii September 2014, 2 months before I got pregnant.
I was always insecure about being thin; having very little womanly flesh on me.
So I am gladly embracing this hip and rib-cage widening that is going on, and my flat, muscley stomach that is now protruding from my belly (please don't hate me).
I feel like a woman! I am blessed to have the opportunity to grow a human inside my body!
With the body expanding in all directions, naturally comes discomfort and major adjustments.
I didn't expect how my body would gain weight and expand so quickly, and how I would have to adjust.
Late in my first trimester, within a few weeks, I gained 10 pounds, bringing me to 135lbs. (For perspective, a jug of milk weighs 8-10 lbs., depending on if it is skim or whole.)
I remember having to work harder to move.
All of these major changes are preparing the pregnant body for the marathon of labor and child-birth, also termed "D-Day" for delivery day.
I am beginning my 7th month now and weigh about 145lb., having gained 20lbs total since becoming pregnant.
Every time I gain, my body feels it, and I have to readjust - working harder than before, yet, becoming stronger than ever!
Dr. Clapp, the writer of Exercising Through Your Pregnancy, shares this about strength:
No one has looked at whether muscle mass or muscle function (the force and velocity of contraction) changes during pregnancy. However, several observations suggest that both muscle mass and strength increase.
First, in the only study which it has been measure, lean body mass after pregnancy was about five percent greater than before pregnancy (Little, Clapp, and Ridzon 1995). As bone mineral is unchanged, the difference is probably due to an increase in muscle mass.
Second, the fact that a woman carries around an additional 20 or more pounds during late pregnancy should increase muscle size and strength in the lower extremities.
Weight gain in pregnancy = stronger muscles!
Quick Anatomy Review:
Joints connect bone to bone with the support of ligaments.
Ligaments connect from bone to bone in order to form and support a joint, often deriving from the outer layer of the joint capsule.
This also makes them capable of sending pain signals to the brain.
The joints and ligaments of a woman's hips and pelvis are designed to move and adjust as the pregnancy progresses, in preparation for delivery- "D-day!"
The following is a list of the most common complaints caused by the loosening of the joints and ligaments in the pelvic area, and the added weight and expansion of the uterus; From The Pregnant Body Book - DK Publishing
Pressure on the vertebrae causes pain around the coccyx (tail-bone)
Dr. James F. Clapp III. M.D., writer of Exercising Through Your Pregnancy, says that regular exercise should offset the effects of pregnancy on ligamentous laxity [loose joints], improve strength, maintain muscle tone, and reduce the incidence of low-back pain and other musculoskeletal complaints.
With the Pilates method's focus on core strength,
The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) suggests 30 minutes of moderate exercise on most, if not all, days of the week for a healthy pregnancy. Click here for the ACOG's FAQs about Exercise During Pregnancy.
Precautions:
Simple Leg Press with 2 lb. hand weights-Step1
Simple Leg Press - Step 2
Gaining strength in the lower limbs and core is crucial for taking on the demands of added weight as pregnancy progresses.
That's it for Part 1 of The Beauty of Weight-Gain!
Click here for Part 2 of The Beauty of Weight-Gain - positive body image during pregnancy.
Alison Marsh, NCPT
Founder of Pregnancy Pilates Impact - Helping Pilates teachers build confidence and competence in teaching pre and postnatal women.
EXERCISING THROUGH YOUR PREGNANCY by James F. Clapp. Omaha, Nebraska. Addicus Books, Inc., 2002.
THE PREGNANT BODY BOOKNew York, New York. DK Publishing. 2011.
PREPARING FOR A GENTLE BIRTH: THE PELVIS IN PREGNANCYby Blandine Calais-Germain and Nuria Vives Pares. Rochester, Vermont. Healing Arts Press,
2009.
Check out the following links to the ACOG's FAQs about the following topics for further information: